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Good points about quitting

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Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day.

Yup.  That was a BIG motivator for me.  Going to bed every night, saying "I didn’t smoke today.  I made it."  What an amazing feeling.  Why ruin it?! Willene QOF+, almost 5M

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as an addiction counselor, i no longer feel like a FRAUD! — read and post daily, it works! rosie LET THE INSPECTIONS WORK! (petition) http://www.moveon.org/ http://www.winwithoutwarus.org/

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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Kim,   Most important of all:   I control my live activities now not my addiction to nicotine.  Course your sniffer is also much better but that has both good and bad effects.  I guess some things you wish you still couldn’t smell. Ian OOF — 8y 3w 2d 11:48 smoke-free, 100,140 cigs not smoked, $12,357.28 saved, – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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turned out to be a lack of B12 and an overdose of the contraceptive pill.

Hey Paula…you’ve mentioned this before and it still puzzles me… I thought you just took "one a day"…….maybe not…. Were you taking "one a go" by mistake?   lmao steveb

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turned out to be a lack of B12 and an overdose of the contraceptive pill. Hey Paula…you’ve mentioned this before and it still puzzles me… I thought you just took "one a day"…….maybe not…. Were you taking "one a go" by mistake?   lmao steveb

Yes…my doctor was away and an intern told me to take 2 a day to try to correct my irregular and painful periods. I did this for several months before getting to a new doctor with the depression mentioned earlier and blood tests showed high levels of hormones in my blood. Enough info? LOL

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I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points!

Great list you have there, Kim.  Here’s one of mine. I feel free. Kimberly 9M

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Im not groping around in my handbag for my smokes or lighter [now its just for my purse or hairbrush] Sue – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I don’t stink, cough, choke, burn holes in things, litter, wheeze, or gasp for air anymore.  Just for starters… SteveS 7+ I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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Jumping in here Kim! Your sadness touched a chord…is there a valid reason for the sadness or is it just a general overwhelming heartache for no real reason? The reason I ask is that on my first quit, I slid into sadness first of all, then into depression – turned out to be a lack of B12 and an overdose of the contraceptive pill. Guess what I am trying to say is that quitting smoking can play havoc with your emotional life, don’t let it get out of hand and seek help if you need to… Hugs Paula

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thanks blashyrkh , lol can I call you blash? Today is better than yesterday but not as good as the day before. I also have a lot of saddness weighing on my heart right now so that could be what is really bugging me who knows. Maybe there will be a gum for that too soon. Kim I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes. * I feel sooo clean :) . If I really need to relax, I take a shower :) hehe * I also feel a lot healthier now. If you’re smoking, doing exercise feels   like a waste of time. I mean on one hand you’re destroying yourself and on   the other hand you’re trying to undo it by getting some exercise.   Not anymore!! Now I’m a super healthy guy :) * Don’t smell like an ashtray anymore. * I can deal with feeling bad better. I say to myself: "Oh come on, this is   just like the times you were feeling bad during the first days of your   quit. It will pass. It always does." * … That is what pops into my mind for now. Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day. B.t.w. Congrati-ole!!! :) or Congratulations!!! Almost six days and not a single deathstick!! You’re doing grrrrr-eat! blash

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Understood, and sorry to hear that Kim. Don’t do it alone, you have ppl here who will lend a shoulder whenever you need it. Hang in there…it will all pass, I can promise you that…just take care of you. Paula

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thanks  for caring Paula, I do have a valid reason for being sad, I have recently been through a break up and I miss my ex like hell. I’m doing what’s best on that front too but it is also not easy, and I have sad days. Kim Jumping in here Kim! Your sadness touched a chord…is there a valid reason for the sadness or is it just a general overwhelming heartache for no real reason? The reason I ask is that on my first quit, I slid into sadness first of all, then into depression – turned out to be a lack of B12 and an overdose of the contraceptive pill. Guess what I am trying to say is that quitting smoking can play havoc with your emotional life, don’t let it get out of hand and seek help if you need to… Hugs Paula Thanks blashyrkh , lol can I call you blash? Today is better than yesterday but not as good as the day before. I also have a lot of saddness weighing on my heart right now so that could be what is really bugging me who knows. Maybe there will be a gum for that too soon. Kim I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes. * I feel sooo clean :) . If I really need to relax, I take a shower :) hehe * I also feel a lot healthier now. If you’re smoking, doing exercise feels   like a waste of time. I mean on one hand you’re destroying yourself and on   the other hand you’re trying to undo it by getting some exercise.   Not anymore!! Now I’m a super healthy guy :) * Don’t smell like an ashtray anymore. * I can deal with feeling bad better. I say to myself: "Oh come on, this is   just like the times you were feeling bad during the first days of your   quit. It will pass. It always does." * … That is what pops into my mind for now. Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day. B.t.w. Congrati-ole!!! :) or Congratulations!!! Almost six days and not a single deathstick!! You’re doing grrrrr-eat! blash

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Thanks  for caring Paula, I do have a valid reason for being sad, I have recently been through a break up and I miss my ex like hell. I’m doing what’s best on that front too but it is also not easy, and I have sad days. Kim

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Jumping in here Kim! Your sadness touched a chord…is there a valid reason for the sadness or is it just a general overwhelming heartache for no real reason? The reason I ask is that on my first quit, I slid into sadness first of all, then into depression – turned out to be a lack of B12 and an overdose of the contraceptive pill. Guess what I am trying to say is that quitting smoking can play havoc with your emotional life, don’t let it get out of hand and seek help if you need to… Hugs Paula Thanks blashyrkh , lol can I call you blash? Today is better than yesterday but not as good as the day before. I also have a lot of saddness weighing on my heart right now so that could be what is really bugging me who knows. Maybe there will be a gum for that too soon. Kim I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes. * I feel sooo clean :) . If I really need to relax, I take a shower :) hehe * I also feel a lot healthier now. If you’re smoking, doing exercise feels   like a waste of time. I mean on one hand you’re destroying yourself and on   the other hand you’re trying to undo it by getting some exercise.   Not anymore!! Now I’m a super healthy guy :) * Don’t smell like an ashtray anymore. * I can deal with feeling bad better. I say to myself: "Oh come on, this is   just like the times you were feeling bad during the first days of your   quit. It will pass. It always does." * … That is what pops into my mind for now. Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day. B.t.w. Congrati-ole!!! :) or Congratulations!!! Almost six days and not a single deathstick!! You’re doing grrrrr-eat! blash

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I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points!

Exercise is fun now, instead of a wheezing, coughing mess. I can smell and taste things now I can laugh at the smokers out in the snow :) — mc I haven’t lost my mind, It is backed up on disk somewhere. 4M

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Thanks blashyrkh , lol can I call you blash? Today is better than yesterday but not as good as the day before. I also have a lot of saddness weighing on my heart right now so that could be what is really bugging me who knows. Maybe there will be a gum for that too soon. Kim

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes. * I feel sooo clean :) . If I really need to relax, I take a shower :) hehe * I also feel a lot healthier now. If you’re smoking, doing exercise feels   like a waste of time. I mean on one hand you’re destroying yourself and on   the other hand you’re trying to undo it by getting some exercise.   Not anymore!! Now I’m a super healthy guy :) * Don’t smell like an ashtray anymore. * I can deal with feeling bad better. I say to myself: "Oh come on, this is   just like the times you were feeling bad during the first days of your   quit. It will pass. It always does." * … That is what pops into my mind for now. Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day. B.t.w. Congrati-ole!!! :) or Congratulations!!! Almost six days and not a single deathstick!! You’re doing grrrrr-eat! blash

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I don’t stink, cough, choke, burn holes in things, litter, wheeze, or gasp for air anymore.  Just for starters… SteveS 7+

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

* I feel sooo clean :) . If I really need to relax, I take a shower :) hehe * I also feel a lot healthier now. If you’re smoking, doing exercise feels   like a waste of time. I mean on one hand you’re destroying yourself and on   the other hand you’re trying to undo it by getting some exercise.   Not anymore!! Now I’m a super healthy guy :) * Don’t smell like an ashtray anymore. * I can deal with feeling bad better. I say to myself: "Oh come on, this is   just like the times you were feeling bad during the first days of your   quit. It will pass. It always does." * … That is what pops into my mind for now. Also, some mornings may suck very much. But when I go to sleep, I always kinda make a balance in my head about the day that is about to be over, and I always go to sleep as a happy non-smoker, every day. B.t.w. Congrati-ole!!! :) or Congratulations!!! Almost six days and not a single deathstick!! You’re doing grrrrr-eat! blash

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Health. Health!  Health!  Health! That, and being a good influence to my kids.  Funny, I was more worried about them starting to smoke because of my influence rather than worried about what my own smoking was doing to them. So health… both mine and my kids.  I’m still gonna die.  And it may not be a pretty thing… but dag nabit it wont be ugly because of something I did… or in this case, didn’t do – quit smoking! ~August OF+

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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Oh and my sinuses feel so good! Kim

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need to make a list. Please post about your own good points! Kid’s won’t be exposed to second hand smoke anymore! Money! We will have more money for fun things! Can’t wait until ex finds out I have quit!! I don’t have to feel socially unacceptable anymore at soccer, parks, fairs ect! Will be able to sit through a movie without having nic fits. Won’t want to rush out of a restaurant anymore. Will prove to myself I do have discipline and will power! I drink more water which I have been trying to do anyway! No more addiction controlling me yeah!!! Kim Five days, 20 hours, 33 minutes and 46 seconds. 140 cigarettes not smoked, saving $56.22. Life saved: 11 hours, 40 minutes.

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My doctor will not nag at me anymore I don’t have to go outside in the cold and rain for a fix My car smells so much nicer I’m less stressed at work as I’m not needing a fix. and the best one…. I’ll get more cuddles from DH ;) hugs padders (

Out of the closet

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Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

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Oh no! The "Ro Troll" slipped through the filter again. Maybe I need another new computer. Well Mad Dad, Rosie has asked about your program. She wants you to think she has some interest in it. Wrong! She wants you to low carb. She wants you to visit her doctors, Bernstein and Atkins. She will also ask you to post your menu which will receive little or no comment. Then she’ll do some sort of "me too" or "good for you" inane comment, embroidered elaborately with meaningless punctutation. Maybe her keyboard is different! Don’t try a private email response unless you can guess which of her multitude of munged addresses you would like your message bounced from. Rosie is a busy career woman. She is an addiction counselor although I wouldn’t suggest you try to validate her certiisfication.She tells others what’s wrong with them and how to fix it. She also does free psychanalysis right here on ASD. But this is not very time consuming because it doesn’t stop her from running to her computer a zillion times a day.  If you look her up in Google under "read and post" and see what she contributes to other groups, you will get the picture. I post pretty often too, but am retired and have the time. That said, welcome to the group. When you’ve been her a bit you’ll find some informed and intelligent sources for diet support and information and some inspiring success examples as well! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – loss program in mind? — read and post, rosie Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

– Diva The Best Man for the Job is a Woman

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loss program in mind? — read and post, rosie

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

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Usually most ASD members are intense about dieting and don’t like to be drawn into the several running disputes that erupt from time to time, ( and I do  provoke and pursue my share because stifling anger and disgust is unhealthy) Several have expressed opinions that you are a troll or a troublemaker, or just a bored middle class, mid-life pseudo practitioner. None of the others have suggested I be fitted with the white jacket with the extra long sleeves for my after picture. As to your concerns about therapy, I have alwyas been up front that because of a bi-polar history I visit a therapist at regular intervals to verify that I am on an even keel. I think i’ll ask him to diagnose you. Regarding periodic "disappearances" everyone takes a holiday now and then even from something they enjoy. It refreshes their perspective. Other priorities arise. I’ll admit you can become so annoying that it sometimes contaminates the whole ASD experience for me. As to your valid address versus the rubber bumpers, how’s a person to know? Do you just let the favored few in on a place they can really reach you? And yes, I do sometimes use you as a cyber whipping boy because you represent a number of things that really invite verbal anger. Do you know of anyone else here who is always trying to label me as a certified looney belonging  in the hot tub of "you know who"? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well Mad Dad, Rosie has asked about your program. She wants you to think she has some interest in it. Wrong! Don’t try a private email response unless you can guess which of her multitude of munged addresses you would like your message bounced from. my REPLY TO  address is accurate, and has been for along time. there are however some addy’s that bounce, once they show themselves to be deranged! (usenet nats, you know) Rosie is a busy career woman. actually, i do most of my chosen fields, part time, so in the last half of my life, i can slow down, and enjoy myself, which i do! i have been very fortunate in my life. That said, welcome to the group. well, finally a "welcome" mad dad, don’t be afraid to "come out" support, but it IS usenet, and that brings out the malcontented folks who post in SPURTS, and then disappear for while. read and post, rosie Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics: It is addictive, gives momentary pleasure.                                                      j. gardner

– Diva The Best Man for the Job is a Woman

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Well Mad Dad, Rosie has asked about your program. She wants you to think she has some interest in it. Wrong!

Don’t try a private email response unless you can guess which of her multitude of munged addresses you would like your message bounced from.

my REPLY TO  address is accurate, and has been for along time. there are however some addy’s that bounce, once they show themselves to be deranged! (usenet nats, you know) Rosie is a busy career woman.

actually, i do most of my chosen fields, part time, so in the last half of my life, i can slow down, and enjoy myself, which i do! i have been very fortunate in my life. That said, welcome to the group.

well, finally a "welcome" mad dad, don’t be afraid to "come out" support, but it IS usenet, and that brings out the malcontented folks who post in SPURTS, and then disappear for while. read and post, rosie Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics: It is addictive, gives momentary pleasure.                                                      j. gardner

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pseudo practitioner. oh god, now your going for the wealth/class thing? and the fact that jamie can’t find my certification? (hint:  name!) As to your concerns about therapy, I have alwyas been up front that because of a bi-polar history

carol, do a google, and check out YOUR posting history, you are the one who i am not in denial, about its importance. visit a therapist at regular intervals to verify that I am on an even keel.

therapist?  (for your mental health)  or not?! As to your valid address versus the rubber bumpers, how’s a person to know? Do you just let the favored few in on a place they can really reach you?

with the exception of the "muscle heads" i don’t have my mail blocked, and rarely do. (you are the person who blocked me, when i suggested that we take this crap to email) it is obvious to me, that you need to have the last word, that  ’somehow’ this will make you feel better, and possible more balanced! go for it girl! enuff said, by me, in this very pathetic thread!

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Mad Dog — Great for you! Your numbers look good and your goal is clear! Find out what works for you and stick with it, long enough for you to reach what you’re aiming at! Terrific! AND WELCOME!!! You sound very positive yourself!. Kind of reminds me of the story of the Quaker lady in a rocking chair who is rocking back and forth on a porch in the first part of town, and a stranger rides up and say, "Say — what are the people like here? I have been looking for a place to live." and she asks, "What were they like in the last town you were at?" The stranger says, "They were mean and stingy. Always had a mean word." "Ride on," says she. "They’re the same here!" And another stranger comes up and says to the woman: "What are the people like here? I’ve been looking for a place to settle down!" Again she asks, "What were they like in the last town?" and he says, "Warm and friendly. Their doors were always open and they always had a friendly word." "Stay," says she. "They’re the same here!" I think we can create the community we want, and on ASD, the people are almost always positive and supportive. So, WELCOME!!! Yours, Caleb

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

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Sorry I have not answered your message earlier but I have not had the time. I am following a low fat/high exercise programme. I have tried the low carb approach but I find that if I reduce the carbs too much then I don’t have the energy for the exercise programme. Mad Dad 307/276/196

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – weight loss program in mind? — read and post, rosie Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

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Love the story and I think it contains a message that could improve the world if everybody took it on board. Mad Dad 307/276/196

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Mad Dog — Great for you! Your numbers look good and your goal is clear! Find out what works for you and stick with it, long enough for you to reach what you’re aiming at! Terrific! AND WELCOME!!! You sound very positive yourself!. Kind of reminds me of the story of the Quaker lady in a rocking chair who is rocking back and forth on a porch in the first part of town, and a stranger rides up and say, "Say — what are the people like here? I have been looking for a place to live." and she asks, "What were they like in the last town you were at?" The stranger says, "They were mean and stingy. Always had a mean word." "Ride on," says she. "They’re the same here!" And another stranger comes up and says to the woman: "What are the people like here? I’ve been looking for a place to settle down!" Again she asks, "What were they like in the last town?" and he says, "Warm and friendly. Their doors were always open and they always had a friendly word." "Stay," says she. "They’re the same here!" I think we can create the community we want, and on ASD, the people are almost always positive and supportive. So, WELCOME!!! Yours, Caleb Hi NG Been lurking for a while and have replied to a few threads but I feel it is about time to introduce myself… I am currently trying to lose a massive amount of weight (approx 8st) after being diagnosed with hypothyroidism. I have always been on the large size and at times this has made me feel a bit self-conscious but it is nice to find a place where every one is open about their weight and feelings and all but one or two are always ready to offer encouragement to those who are struggling. I hope in the future that this NG can help me in my endeavours and that I can also help others. Mad Dad 307/276/196

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I think we can create the community we want, and on ASD, the people are almost always positive and supportive. So, WELCOME!!! Yours, Caleb

without a doubt!

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Online, Married Priests Aid Flock

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That’s all fine and dandy for the state requirements for a wedding, but what about the marriage?  That’s the problem with these things, and that’s why the Church doesn’t support it.  A marriage is a sacrament.  A wedding is only a ceremony.  Doing it this way puts it on the same level as an awards dinner. Doug

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Online, Married Priests Aid Flock at Odds With Church By SUSAN SAULNY hen Stephanie Krill became engaged last year, she knew exactly what kind of wedding she wanted: a traditional ceremony under a gazebo surrounded by blossoms, blessed by a Roman Catholic priest. She found the perfect place and booked it. She found the perfect dress and bought it. Then came the hard part: finding the priest. Of the few who were available, not one was willing to marry her outdoors because the church discourages wedding ceremonies outside church buildings. Nonetheless, Ms. Krill eventually became Mrs. DiMaulo, her vows professed before a Father George, who arrived in flowing purple vestments to deliver the wedding she wanted, regardless of the rules. He could do this because he did not come from her parish in Bogota, N.J. He was not beholden to a bishop. Although the church does not recognize such weddings, the state does. The DiMaulos found Father George on the Internet. He was advertised on a Web site that some consider horribly irreverent, others a stroke of genius. The site is called www.rentapriest.com. There, ordained men who have chosen to separate from the church, most to be married themselves, are organized state by state on "God’s Yellow Pages Online." The site tells visitors to "locate a married Roman Catholic priest by clicking on your state!" The site was founded by Louise Haggett, 59, of Framingham, Mass., who described herself as a "pay, pray and obey" Catholic until 10 years ago, when she had difficulty finding someone to give her mother last rites. Today, 300 men are listed on the Web site, and there are more than 2,500 available for referrals in her database, Ms. Haggett said. In New York and New Jersey, 28 men are listed, some of whom say they are incredibly busy, especially during the summer wedding season. Although the priests are available for a variety of ceremonies, the demand is greatest for the marriage ministry. One priest in Manhattan is scheduled for 18 weddings this month alone. There is no set fee for a wedding, and some priests refuse to take any money at all, while others ask for $250 to $300. In many ways, the success of the site is not surprising, given the fractured nature of the Catholic Church in America. Dissent over doctrinal issues concerning things like celibacy and the role of women has driven men from the priesthood and alienated segments of the country’s 60 million Catholics. So many of them, like Mrs. DiMaulo, turn to the Web site with a real devoutness about their Catholicism, but also with a sense of disconnection from the church and a willingness to live with its official disapproval. For others, it is simply a practical matter, as the nationwide shortage of priests worsens. "We do it because there’s a need for it," said Jack W. Hauck, 68, now an addiction counselor, who was ordained in 1960, married in 1973, and is listed on Rent a Priest under Albany. "I say Mass on a regular basis, would hear confessions in Troy, have worked in a hospital giving dying patients absolution. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about being a priest. When I dream, I’m a priest. I’m married, but I’m a priest." The Catholic Church could not disagree more. Even though canon law makes it impossible to unordain a priest, the authority of a bishop is required for priests to administer sacraments. In other words, a marriage performed by a priest who has left the church is not valid in the eyes of the church. The same is true for baptisms, the anointing of the sick, absolutions and Masses. That reality makes the decision to turn to an organization like Rent a Priest a serious statement for some Catholics, one with moral and spiritual implications. For example, according to the church’s stance, a Catholic couple married by a priest outside the church would technically be living in sin. "The bottom line is that they’re operating outside the umbrella of the church," said the Rev. Thomas P. Nydegger, the vice rector at Immaculate Conception Seminary in South Orange, N.J., and former vocation director for the Archdiocese of Newark. "They may have some of the trappings of the church, but what they are doing is not endorsed or blessed by the church." There are estimated to be thousands of priests in the country who have resigned to marry. Those who continue to minister are not a cohesive group, but they are loosely characterized as having renegade attitudes toward church rules. Many will marry divorced Catholics without annulments, for example, or speak liberally about birth control and homosexuality. In doing so, the priests and those who turn to them have drawn the ire of more traditional Catholics and the disapproval of church authorities. William Donohue, the president of the Catholic League for Civil and Religious Rights, said: "Unless a priest is recognized, he would have as much authority as someone in an asylum who thought he was the pope. When people want to dissent, I say, `If you don’t like Macy’s, go to Lord & Taylor.’ They might be peculiar, but these are the house rules." The house rules did not seem to make much sense to Joe and Stephanie DiMaulo, but their identities as Catholics were strong enough for them to reject the notion of being married by a minister from another denomination. The same was true for Karen Kucharski and Robert Celano of Colonia, N.J. They chose to be wed by a married priest in March because Ms. Kucharski did not yet have an annulment. "I found rentapriest.com," she said, "and when I told people about it, they said, `You’re not serious.’ But I was. I was a little turned off by the name, but it was reputable." Although more than 70 percent of Catholics approve of priests being married, according to two studies cited by the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate at Georgetown University, the decision to turn to a married priest outside the church is not easy for many of them. Anna, an employment counselor from Queens who gave her views on the condition that her last name not be used, chose someone from Rent a Priest for her wedding, but is still concerned about how her family views her marriage. "Both of us had been raised by devout Catholic mothers," she said of herself and her husband. "Whereas I agree with some of the principles of my Catholic upbringing, I no longer accept all of the dogma and doctrine." Rent a Priest was a compromise . It offered the trappings of Catholicism, which pleased her family, while allowing her to dissent. Ms. Haggett said she started the Web site after researching the number of priests who were leaving the church and why. "I was encouraging them to take the chalices out of the closets," she said. In 1992, she founded C.I.T.I. Ministries, for Celibacy Is the Issue, a nonprofit group that advocates on behalf of married priests, and began forming the database that later became rentapriest.com. Three years later, she left her job as a manufacturing sales representative to devote herself full time to the organization. The stigma associated with leaving the priesthood for marriage is unpleasant enough that several men who were interviewed for this article insisted that their full names not be used. (Father George, who married the DiMaulos, made such a request.) If any one man can be seen as the theological shepherd of married priests, it is Anthony T. Padovano, a professor in Morris Plains, N.J., who was ordained in 1959 and spent more than 15 years training men to be priests. He decided to leave the church to be married 26 years ago. Since then, he has written profusely about theology and celibacy, his work constituting what some former parish priests call their "unofficial charter." Dr. Padovano, who is not on the Web site but gets referrals from Mrs. Haggett, married Mr. Celano and Ms. Kucharski. Dr. Padovano, 66, is highly sought for religious and speaking engagements. He is also a past president of Corpus, the National Association for a Married Priesthood. There are 3,000 members today, and Dr. Padovano estimates that since 1970, 23,000 priests have resigned to be married nationwide. Although many of the ordained men who are married now do not think they will see changes in their lifetimes, they are loath to lose faith. And for some who participate on the Web site, the connection gives them a sense of satisfaction. Michael Callahan, whom Rent a Priest lists for East Northport, N.Y., agreed. "The concept is new and great," he said. "I’m not crazy about the name, though." New York Times

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So distraught…..

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Kim, Get a good pain DR~ I have found that with some Wellbutrin, daily Fiorinol and a couple other meds I am OK!! For once in my life I do not wake up daily with a migraine! Just find a good pain DR or Neuro who can treat this, it takes WAT to much away from life. This I know. I have three little ones, and no time for laying around in depression/chronic pain. Go figure today was the first day I have woken up with a darned MIGRAINE! IN MONTHS! Kim (never rule out allergies either)

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I really don’t understand the legalities involved…..if you have a legit script from a legit physician, why is it wrong to fill it and receive pain relief?– WHile I can’t be sure (not a lawyer, y’understand), I’d say that you are, simply, getting the prescription by lying about your needs, and getting your prescription under false pretenses.

Naomi is 100% right on this one.  I did the same "Doctor Shuffle" and i was wrong when i did it.  If i’m not with a doctor who can give me pain relief, i need to be with a different doctor. Doctors feel scammed when they find out you are going to different ones (yes, the insurances call your primary dude or dudette to make sure they know.)  And when they find out, they will never trust you again.  I know…. Now i am absolutely anal about staying under the narc contract i have with Paul, my physician.  I follow it to the letter.  My meds are also locked in a safe to which i don’t have the combonation.  Why?  Because it is my only protection.  Only by following these restrictions am i allowed the freedom of pain medications.  I am extreme about following the contract because i know one single Vicodin or T3 from a compassionate neighbor can snatch the relief i do have. I know you are in pain.   I know it feels like the only safety you feel is in having the med bottle full.  But there are better, safer ways than to doctor dance.  Sweetheart, there is relief available.  Get it.  Don’t accept anything less.  But stay with a doctor to whom you can stay accountable. Deep peace to you, Lavon

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PS. I do not believe in rebound, and I do believe in WHAT EVER works for you USE IT. You just need the right DR! If you are in pa, i can help, let me know. Please nobody slam me, this is just my opinion. I respect others opinions. I have been dealing with the migraine/daily headache thing for SOOOO long. Have the TOP of the LINE Neuro at Jefferson who treats headaches, and another neuro who does all my back stuff… Kim

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Dear Kim:  I lurk here often but rarely post, but your story really touched me.  I hope that your stay at Diamond is better than mine were.  I dealt with Diamond for about 4 years with 7-8 inpatient stays lasting anywhere from 10 to 28 days.  It’s a great place to learn about  headaches and some people felt they can do miricles, but I never found any type of relief there from refractory hemiplegic migraines.  Dr. Larry Robbins who is north of Chicago is the one who really helped me.  While I still have daily migraines I deal with them in many ways, but you have to add in the fact that I also have several autoimmune diseases, FMS, DDD and 3 rupturd discs, so my way may not serve you well at all.  I take a huge amount of medication with long acting opioids and short acting opioiods for breakthrough pain being only two of the bunch but they did give me a quality of life back that is wonderful.  Not exactly the life I had before but with so much to deal with that won’t happen.  Anyway I hope you do take advantage of all the classes Diamond offers as you will learn alot.  I also hope you get one of the physician’s who are a bit more empathic than some of the others.  Dr. F.  was and is not a doctor I would ever seen again no matter what….but again that is me others think him a God, but I bet I can name more who think he’s an a**.  Sorry I hope I didn’t scare you off and that they can help you.  It was a wonderful place to met people who are in the same situation or worse and be able to talk with them.  You really realize you are not alone in this at all.  And if that is the only thing I took from Diamond then it was well worth going!  I wish you the very best of luck. Sincerely, Deanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – This is what is happening next week……IP hospitalization at Diamond. Hope it works….i’ve been told it tends to be temporary, only 3-4 months at most and then you are back to square one. — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/) /_ And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue

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Dear Sue: It’s Dr, Lawrence Robbins not Robb who is in Chicago, actually Northbrook, IL about 20 minutes from O’Hare.  I will be grateful to him always.  Just thought you would like the info.  You see Seymore’s little girl huh?  Is she running the place now?  Just curious.  Glad you found relief there.  I came away with a better understanding of migraine but in the end no real relief or treatment they offered helped like Dr. Robbins treatment.   Take Care, Deanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – This is what is happening next week……IP hospitalization at Diamond. Hope it works….i’ve been told it tends to be temporary, only 3-4 months at most and then you are back to square one. — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_ And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue Dear Kim, I will be thinking of you this weekend, trying to hold on till your appointment. As for3-4 months for treatment, it took us 13 months to get me to 80% of my capacity that I had before my allergic reaction to a doctor approved drug, which among other things sent my headaches rocketing sky high and out of control.     Dr. Merle  adequately managed my pain through this whole period, and still does so today. The clinic uses anything that works to manage your pain. They have drugs that are so obscure that no company manufactures them, and they have to contract them out to a( specific factory?) for hire. My pharmacist finds it all pretty interesting, and I know that that is not your favorite word right now, but just by going to Diamond, you will be getting some credibility back from your pharmacist. If Diamond doesn’t work for you,there are other very good places. Dr. Silverstein and Dr. L. Robb are mentioned frequently in this newsgroup. I understand that Dr. Robb is also in Chicago. Best of Luck to you, Sue

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Unfortunately I cannot help because I am in similar situation….doc thought Fiorinal was causing rebound so we styed off that for two months or so and then when she  decided to presicbe it again it was one every 12 hours! hahahaha! next time it was one every 8 hours…I take two at a time to get any minimal relief and with ibuprofen. Neuro gives me 30 percocets to last two months and in between  have to beg for something including ER visits. Then they ask me, "what’s going on?" I’m afraid I went to a consult for an accupuncturist and the attitude seemed to be the same plus I cannot afford it!  $75 twice a week to start …for who knows how long. I hopw you find some relief…I do know that oxycodone helps me to at leat do dishes and vaccuum….my DH with two back surgeries and disabled does the rest…except for an occasional load of laundry. I know how it feels …I wish I could take all of our pain and suffering away…my doc actually said that to me once…but now she is "mad" at me…sent me to an addiction counselor even! That is enough from me…You have your own trials to deal with….wishing and praying for the relief you need. Fran

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Dr. Larry Robbins who is north of Chicago is the one who really helped me.

If I had Migraines…..I’d be seeing Dr. Robbins and may soon see him for my clusters if I can get into his schedule. Only for a specific reason regarding something not allowed under Diamond Clinic policy.  Dr. F.  was and is not a doctor I would ever seen

again no matter what….but again that is me others think him a God, but I bet I can name more who think he’s an a**. LOL…That would only be a god with a little "g" ,thank you Deanie ;-) When you have clusters you need to see the guy that knows the most about them. I suppose I could fly to see Jack Sandweiss once a month in California but the treatment wouldn’t change. I’m sure that Fred doesn’t come off as a very sympathetic guy when you’re lying there in migraine hell. He is also the first to admit that. Anyone going to Diamond should ask for Merle…no, PLEAD for Merle. You are correct though about the in-patient program. Everyone with migraines should go through it if they had the time and money/insurance. There is also a "very good" pain specialist in the Chicago area named Dr. Skaredoff (yes it is) if anyone needs info, let me know. BobW

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Dr. Larry Robbins who is north of Chicago is the one who really helped me. If I had Migraines…..I’d be seeing Dr. Robbins and may soon see him for my clusters if I can get into his schedule. Only for a specific reason regarding something not allowed under Diamond Clinic policy.  Dr. F.  was and is not a doctor I would ever seen again no matter what….but again that is me others think him a God, but I bet I can name more who think he’s an a**. LOL…That would only be a god with a little "g" ,thank you Deanie ;-) When you have clusters you need to see the guy that knows the most about them. I suppose I could fly to see Jack Sandweiss once a month in California but the treatment wouldn’t change. I’m sure that Fred doesn’t come off as a very sympathetic guy when you’re lying there in migraine hell. He is also the first to admit that. Anyone going to Diamond should ask for Merle…no, PLEAD for Merle. You are correct though about the in-patient program. Everyone with migraines should go through it if they had the time and money/insurance. There is also a "very good" pain specialist in the Chicago area named Dr. Skaredoff (yes it is) if anyone needs info, let me know. BobW

Thanks Bob.  I am glad that Dr. Merle was able to help you.  It seemed to me that they were better able to assist those with clusters than with migraines.  Do you use the histamine IV therapy?  I didn’t really like Merle either.  Urban was my doc while I was there.  They try hard but in my opinion not hard enough.  When it came down to the point where nothing they did helped me I was sent home and told to live with it.  Don’t y’all hate that phrase?  Also I was instructed to go to the ER and have him, Urban, paged each time to tell them what to give me, well that went over light a lead ballon after the third visit. Slapped with a drug seeker label and sent home.  Even after I told him that was happening he just shrugged and offered to put me inpatient again.  Told him thanks but no.  Picked up my bags and flew home. Just by luck read an article written by Robbins and the rest is history….and for me it’s been lucky history.  I don’t know how many of you use Skp Bakers site but Diamond is on his worst pain clinic list.  I guess it just depends on who you talk to and when doesn’t it? Take care Bob.  Oh yes Bob?  Don’t tell Fred I said Hi….Thanks!! Deanie

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – This is what is happening next week……IP hospitalization at Diamond. Hope it works….i’ve been told it tends to be temporary, only 3-4 months at most and then you are back to square one. — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_ And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue

Dear Kim, I will be thinking of you this weekend, trying to hold on till your appointment. As for3-4 months for treatment, it took us 13 months to get me to 80% of my capacity that I had before my allergic reaction to a doctor approved drug, which among other things sent my headaches rocketing sky high and out of control.      Dr. Merle  adequately managed my pain through this whole period, and still does so today. The clinic uses anything that works to manage your pain. They have drugs that are so obscure that no company manufactures them, and they have to contract them out to a( specific factory?) for hire. My pharmacist finds it all pretty interesting, and I know that that is not your favorite word right now, but just by going to Diamond, you will be getting some credibility back from your pharmacist. If Diamond doesn’t work for you,there are other very good places. Dr. Silverstein and Dr. L. Robb are mentioned frequently in this newsgroup. I understand that Dr. Robb is also in Chicago. Best of Luck to you, Sue

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I really don’t understand the legalities involved…..if you have a legit script from a legit physician, why is it wrong to fill it and receive pain relief?–

WHile I can’t be sure (not a lawyer, y’understand), I’d say that you are, simply, getting the prescription by lying about your needs, and getting your prescription under false pretenses. I know that I have  NEVER been to a new doctor and NOT been asked about what medications I am taking.  So, if your second doctor prescribed you more Fiorinol, I have to assume that you didn’t tell him you were already taking it, and already  had a prescription. Ditto for doctors 3 and 4. Naomi

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This is what is happening next week……IP hospitalization at Diamond. Hope it works….i’ve been told it tends to be temporary, only 3-4 months at most and then you are back to square one.

I’m so glad you’ve gotten some help. Naomi – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_ And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue

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Dearest Kim, Sometimes there are breadcrumbs of relief just in knowing there is a game plan…just knowing that there is forward motion. Joyous thoughts travelling your way… Lavon

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I really don’t understand the legalities involved…..if you have a legit script from a legit physician, why is it wrong to fill it and receive pain relief?– Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have migraines and CDH overlapping and have not had a pain free day in years……much more severe the last two months.  <snipped the rest Kim you are playing a dangerous game when you get prescriptions from more than one doctor and fill them at different pharmacies.  I don’t know the laws where you live but, where I live that is good for jail time (or so I’ve been told, I’m not a lawyer).  I know you think you have to have more medication but, this is not the way to do it and remain free.  You will simply have to find a doctor who understands your problem and can prescribe a medication to help you.  You may need a long acting medication or some other solution.  I can’t offer medical advice but, you need to find a doctor who can help.  I have used Fiorinol in the past for migraines and it was pretty effective but, for only a short time.  The result was that I had to keep popping the pills and after a while they just wouldn’t do the job.  I spent years tryiung to find a good solution.  Many of us have to go through that.  I know it isn’t encouraging to hear that you may have to do that but, don’t play around with the prescription thing.  They probably won’t give you anything for pain in prison so don’t go there.

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I was crying, not because of panic, but because of the hurt, humiliation, shame, hopelessness, lack of pain control after I had been begging for better pain control…….it’s like none of my docs really cared how I felt in my head. — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <horror story about migraines & CDH, with dr finding out about 4 different other sources for fiorinal and cancelling all of them Kim, I hope that you are not as upset right now as you were when you wrote this post.  Crying and panicking won’t help your head any, although I certainly understand the feeling. I had confessed to my dr once that I had been getting additional Fiorinal from a Mexican pharmacy.  His reaction was actually pretty caring — that it was a stupid thing for me to do legally (quite true), and that we must not have found a way to manage my headaches very well & we needed to work harder on that, and that I could be addicted. He said that it’s not unusual for people to be addicted, and that in & of itself may not actually be such a big problem except that it may affect you legally as you try to obtain it and it may affect you medically as you try to cope with your headaches.  He is a rebound believer, but also does not want his patients to be in pain. Appropriate medical treatment for addiction may not mean cutting you off cold turkey.  It may mean monitoring your usage, charting your headaches, continuing to write you Rx’s for Fiorinal and letting you use it (hopefully while tapering down), and watching what happens to you (overall as a person) and to your headaches. You may need to take some big deep breaths and calm down and make another appointment with your doctor to discuss this.  If your doctor is not willing to oversee your withdrawal from Fiorinal and work with you on it, maybe you should change doctors.  You need to be totally honest with whoever your doctor is, though, and really get their help. I know it’s scary to be found out.  I know it’s scary to think you may have to face all this pain without adequate pain relief.  But the first step in turning all this around is already behind you, and you don’t have to be scared of being found out anymore. There are so many new drugs that keep coming on the market that help a lot of people.  I know you say you’ve tried everything, but you may not be able to tell what really might be able to help you in the absence of rebounding going on. Another person responded to you that you might want to consider inpatient treatment.  You really might.  I know you said you have to care for your baby and your husband works fulltime.  I know that seems like an impossible situation, to be able to go into the hospital for help while you get off the Fiorinal and get help for your headaches.  But in the long run it might be the best thing you ever did. I know there have been times in the past when I felt so hopeless about ever having any relief from pain that I thought I just would not want to live this way if this is the way it’s going to be.  I don’t want to put words in your mouth or exaggerate what you said in your post, but I know I was scared to face all that pain without my drugs.  It’s definitely more practical and more workable to ask for help and be hospitalized if necessary in that situation than to commit suicide.  Like I said, I know you didn’t say anything like that, but I just know how I felt at the time, myself, and I just wanted you to know that there is help available. Best wishes to you.  I can’t imagine trying to take care of a baby while having migraines and chronic daily headaches.  Bless your heart. Rosemary

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This is what is happening next week……IP hospitalization at Diamond. Hope it works….i’ve been told it tends to be temporary, only 3-4 months at most and then you are back to square one. — Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue

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If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Bob Naw… keep it. You can give me a new head; preferably one that doesn’t hurt…. Naomi

If the Lemon Law applied to God, i’d be recalled by now. -L-

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I have migraines and CDH overlapping and have not had a pain free day in years……much more severe the last two months.  <snipped the rest

Kim you are playing a dangerous game when you get prescriptions from more than one doctor and fill them at different pharmacies.  I don’t know the laws where you live but, where I live that is good for jail time (or so I’ve been told, I’m not a lawyer).  I know you think you have to have more medication but, this is not the way to do it and remain free.  You will simply have to find a doctor who understands your problem and can prescribe a medication to help you.  You may need a long acting medication or some other solution.  I can’t offer medical advice but, you need to find a doctor who can help.  I have used Fiorinol in the past for migraines and it was pretty effective but, for only a short time.  The result was that I had to keep popping the pills and after a while they just wouldn’t do the job.  I spent years tryiung to find a good solution.  Many of us have to go through that.  I know it isn’t encouraging to hear that you may have to do that but, don’t play around with the prescription thing.  They probably won’t give you anything for pain in prison so don’t go there.

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And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you.

Naw… keep it. You can give me a new head; preferably one that doesn’t hurt…. Naomi – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Bob

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage.

Kim,    I lost your message off my list (I hate reading news the way I am now!).  I agree with what others are saying.  Here are a few other suggestions: 1.  Take this as a wake up call.  We all get them for various reasons.  Find a doctor who will work with you to find a preventative that works for you or prescribe daily meds that you need. 2.  Get a good book on headaches.  I like Dr. Robbins book.  Find out your choices. 3.  Remember fiornol is, exsentially, excedrin with a mild barbituate so all those meds are the same.  If you are truly dealing with rebound, then there are 2 schools of thought on it.  One is go off slowly and the other is go cold turkey. BUT DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES GO OFF CAFFIENE COLD TURKEY! (did I say that loud enough?)  So, figure out how much caffiene you are taking and when you are taking it and replace it with generic vivarin and slowly taper off that.  If you try to go off slowly but are afraid to ask for more fiornol, remember that the only thing you are missing is the barbituate.  I have a friend who used benedryl with excedrin.  She found that it helped her deal with the anxiety issues of having pain.  In her case, she had no more insurance.  I don’t think they recommend taking benedryl for more than a week (she had a plan and had some fiornol left). You have my sympathies.  I had a 4 month time period with what I refer to as totally uncontrolled migraines.  Little was helping them–taking imitrex or fiornol or midrin was like eating pez. I went off all meds for a 4 week time span to eliminate rebound (and had 13 migraines with 17 days of total pain). Georgia

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<horror story about migraines & CDH, with dr finding out about 4 different other sources for fiorinal and cancelling all of them Kim, I hope that you are not as upset right now as you were when you wrote this post.  Crying and panicking won’t help your head any, although I certainly understand the feeling. I had confessed to my dr once that I had been getting additional Fiorinal from a Mexican pharmacy.  His reaction was actually pretty caring — that it was a stupid thing for me to do legally (quite true), and that we must not have found a way to manage my headaches very well & we needed to work harder on that, and that I could be addicted. He said that it’s not unusual for people to be addicted, and that in & of itself may not actually be such a big problem except that it may affect you legally as you try to obtain it and it may affect you medically as you try to cope with your headaches.  He is a rebound believer, but also does not want his patients to be in pain. Appropriate medical treatment for addiction may not mean cutting you off cold turkey.  It may mean monitoring your usage, charting your headaches, continuing to write you Rx’s for Fiorinal and letting you use it (hopefully while tapering down), and watching what happens to you (overall as a person) and to your headaches. You may need to take some big deep breaths and calm down and make another appointment with your doctor to discuss this.  If your doctor is not willing to oversee your withdrawal from Fiorinal and work with you on it, maybe you should change doctors.  You need to be totally honest with whoever your doctor is, though, and really get their help. I know it’s scary to be found out.  I know it’s scary to think you may have to face all this pain without adequate pain relief.  But the first step in turning all this around is already behind you, and you don’t have to be scared of being found out anymore. There are so many new drugs that keep coming on the market that help a lot of people.  I know you say you’ve tried everything, but you may not be able to tell what really might be able to help you in the absence of rebounding going on. Another person responded to you that you might want to consider inpatient treatment.  You really might.  I know you said you have to care for your baby and your husband works fulltime.  I know that seems like an impossible situation, to be able to go into the hospital for help while you get off the Fiorinal and get help for your headaches.  But in the long run it might be the best thing you ever did. I know there have been times in the past when I felt so hopeless about ever having any relief from pain that I thought I just would not want to live this way if this is the way it’s going to be.  I don’t want to put words in your mouth or exaggerate what you said in your post, but I know I was scared to face all that pain without my drugs.  It’s definitely more practical and more workable to ask for help and be hospitalized if necessary in that situation than to commit suicide.  Like I said, I know you didn’t say anything like that, but I just know how I felt at the time, myself, and I just wanted you to know that there is help available. Best wishes to you.  I can’t imagine trying to take care of a baby while having migraines and chronic daily headaches.  Bless your heart. Rosemary

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob

Dear Kim,      Since you have tried everything, and your pain still is not adequately addressed, have you considered impatient treatment? If your doctor won’t work with you on this, you can go such places as the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago. That institution, and others like it, can really help. Remember, you are not alone out there.Headache pain management can be a lot more effective than the way you  and your doctor are doing it. Good Luck Sue

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And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.)

If anyone bites off your head Naomi, I’ll help sew it back on for you. Kim, I know you are very distressed over this and I would be also, but in the long term, this may help. You very well could be rebounding a great deal. If this is the case though, your doctor should have helped you deal with the situation. She was undoubtably mad at you and wasn’t considering the pain that could be caused by sending you home in a rebounding state without adequate pain control or in a pain control setting (hospital). You should have been tapered off the large amount of medication you were taking until you were at what she considered an "acceptable" dosage. I hope she is also prescribing a new preventative for you to try to lassen the amount and severity of you CDH. Besides that. it’s obvious that she wasn’t prescribing an adequate amount of pain control or preventative medication to help in the first place. Maybe you need to find someone more suitable to treating CDH. But, don’t expect anyone to prescribe the quantity of pills you were taking before. Maybe though, there are some long acting medications more suited for your condition. Good luck Bob

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I’m not sure how much help this is, but it sounds like you need to have a long talk with your doctor.  10-15 Exedrin per day is NOT good for you. Nor is taking Fiorinol every day. And neither, for that matter, is lying to doctors and pharmacists about how much medication you are using. You need to work with your doc to find something that is effective for you, at doses that are not going to do you more harm than good. (You don’t say what treatments and therapies you’ve tried, but there must be something you HAVEN"T tried.  And, while some here may bite my head off for suggesting it, if you’ve been taking high daily doses of meds for a long time, rebound COULD be a factor.) I’m sorry you’re having such a bad time.  I too get CDH, but fortunately my daily pain is more annoying than disabling, so I can manage without treating it, saving my meds for the migraines. Naomi – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have migraines and CDH overlapping and have not had a pain free day in years……much more severe the last two months. My only short term relief is plain old Fiorinal. I have tried many narcotics in the past to no avail. I have been using Fiorinal daily when I do have it and then take time off but during that time I generally take about 10-15 Excedrin to get me thru the day, as I live on the couch from chronic pain as it is. I am a stay at home mom and my dh works FT…he comes home and then does the housework I cannot do. I can’t even work anymore it is so debilitating. I have tried so many therapies, preventives, the whole gamut, to no avail and am so desperate for relief. Today, my neuro found out I was getting Fiorinal from four different docs from four different pharmacies (because I couldn’t get enuf from her to keep me pain free), she she took it upon herself to call all my pharmacies and forbid them to give me any scripts from any doctor except her. Isn’t that nice? I have 22 Fiorinal right now and have been crying for 3-1/2 hours now because I was found out and because when my supply runs out, it runs out. What do I do?  I already spend too much time on the couch and I must care for my baby. Guess it is bed for me for the rest of my life, or what? I would appreciate any help or advice or anything. Kim

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I have migraines and CDH overlapping and have not had a pain free day in years……much more severe the last two months. My only short term relief is plain old Fiorinal. I have tried many narcotics in the past to no avail. I have been using Fiorinal daily when I do have it and then take time off but during that time I generally take about 10-15 Excedrin to get me thru the day, as I live on the couch from chronic pain as it is. I am a stay at home mom and my dh works FT…he comes home and then does the housework I cannot do. I can’t even work anymore it is so debilitating. I have tried so many therapies, preventives, the whole gamut, to no avail and am so desperate for relief. Today, my neuro found out I was getting Fiorinal from four different docs from four different pharmacies (because I couldn’t get enuf from her to keep me pain free), she she took it upon herself to call all my pharmacies and forbid them to give me any scripts from any doctor except her. Isn’t that nice? I have 22 Fiorinal right now and have been crying for 3-1/2 hours now because I was found out and because when my supply runs out, it runs out. What do I do?  I already spend too much time on the couch and I must care for my baby. Guess it is bed for me for the rest of my life, or what? I would appreciate any help or advice or anything. Kim

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I would never ever lie to my doctors about my pain. THey all know how badly I hurt. I just kept refilling Rx’s from the other docs because I needed more, that’s all. Gosh, this pain thing is so awful….I don’t want to be on any medications whatsoever. I would rather live life and just brag about having to swallow a vitamin. You know?  I don’t like the way these pain meds make me feel, but the Fiorinal does help temporarily which is what I was using…temporary relief, as the preventives I had been on didn’t work (MScontin, amtrip, protrip, depakote, antidepressants, and so many others). Kim, SAH/WAH mommy to Dakota, 7 Jeb, 16 months wife to Wade, 9 years in June (o/)  /_ "Naomi Lynne Pardue – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – WHile I can’t be sure (not a lawyer, y’understand), I’d say that you are, simply, getting the prescription by lying about your needs, and getting your prescription under false pretenses. I know that I have  NEVER been to a new doctor and NOT been asked about what medications I am taking.  So, if your second doctor prescribed you more Fiorinol, I have to assume that you didn’t tell him you were already taking it, and already  had a prescription. Ditto for doctors 3 and 4. Naomi

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Why am I here???? Why do I bother???

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LOL, iffen we ever get to that point she sleeps on the couch, I refuse to be put out of me bed by anyone, PERIOD.  As for your supposed lady’s buttocks, until you put your brand on her with a license I plan to keep looking, just never touching. VEG

Nope.  No brand for my Diane.  No tag, label, plate, plaque or other form of ownership.  She’s a maverick, and I could not find myself with any other kind.  You’re a man, and you understand what I mean. HOWEVER, as long as she doesn’t object to you looking, I’ll turn a blind eye and pretend to be outraged occasionally.  Of course, if we ever meet up in the real world, and I should find WW’s Beautiful Bottom attractive, well…  <G Eddie …Otter on a weak end…

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OK I am not "swanning off to Hawaii" tomorrow, but if I decide I am going, (kinda tough to turn down) I will be going mid June. The problems are not going to go away overnight. But as we drunks in AA say, progress rather than perfection……we need to have a goal and actually try to get there. If we don’t give a shit that is another story. My son has agreed to go to counselling. He doesn’t see how it will help, but the point is, he has agreed to go and we are going. He is also agreeing to get the hell out of my car and drive the other one I gave him. That car is our biggest problem. So that will take lots of weight off. I still don’t trust him in my home while I am in Hawaii because let’s face it, these kids are at the partying age. I have to solve that problem or I don’t go. Period. I can always go to Hawaii on my own. I don’t need someone else paying my way. I do need a break, and I need to think about my recovery from all this too. Stress kills you know. Janet A strong, positive attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug. –Patricia Neal

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OK I am not "swanning off to Hawaii" tomorrow, but if I decide I am going,

If you read my post properly you will see that the phrase "swanning off" was a very small part of the post and was used in a specific context to point out that nobody on a usenet support group is really qualified on the basis of reading a few rants to say whether or not the best answer for you is to stay home, go to hawaii, or jump in a lake.  All we can really offer is a listening ear, and occasionally offer advice on what we know about. Most of us don’t know about epilepsy, parenting (other than what WE ourselves did – but I would NEVER presume to tell another parent how to raise their kids) or a whole host of things which are discussed here.  Sometimes those things are innoccuous (what should I do about my bad haircut?) but sometimes the consequences of taking bad advice are serious (how should I deal with an epileptic fit?  What should I do about my son’s bad behaviour?  How long will this crash diet take before it kills me?) There are some individuals who can make useful and informed statements on certain issues in general terms.  There might even be some issues which those people could give specific advice on.  But those cases are few and far between. The one thing which *is* common to us all and about which we can all profess to have some knowlege is quitting smoking.  The rest is just chatter.  And forgive me for saying so, but quitting smoking is why we are all here. There is a saying which goes (from memory):  "Go not to usenet for advice, for you will be told ‘Yes’, ‘No’, and ‘Fuck You’."  It’s never more true when you are sharing personal problems.  If you follow the advice you are given here, given freely and unselfishly, but given by people who cannot possibly know all your circumstances, have their own personal prejudices and preconceptions, and limited knowledge of the subject matter upon which they are advising … well, then you probably deserve all that befalls you. Oh, and if you do decide to go, I hope you enjoy Hawaii … send us back a postcard :) Lemming — Curiosity *may* have killed Schr

AND NOW I WOKE UP AGAIN

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Yep.  I wake up and think (and sometimes say aloud) "another day–too bad."

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" THINGIE’S " got twins .

And they both look exactly like you.

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coming from someone who calls themselve , " vegboy " , i’ll just laugh and say , at least mine are meat . " THINGIE’S " got twins . And they both look exactly like you.

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Okay…  I’m curious. Honestly, now.  Tell us about yourself?  Do you suffer from depression?  How old are you?  What do you do?  What do you like?  What do you dislike?  Are you married?  Have any kids?  Any dreams?  Ambitions?  Goals? Or are you just here to laugh and wave your… you know… in everybody’s face?

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – ok , i will help you . :) yes , i’ve been taking meds for depression since the age of 4 . i have anxiety attacks that would kill a normal human . also the inner voices we all know and love are forever present . <nod nod the age thing we’ll just leave alone . fair enough i’m an addiction counselor with an adult psychologhy diploma . i work in a non medical detox doing case management mostly . but i’m currently on leave do to illness . K. i like anything i can do outside .

 Me too. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – i dislike murder in any form , to the point where walking on grass bothers me . Me too, but not to that extent. i’m not married anymore , tried it once , i didn’t even like the cake . LOL yes , i have two children . Cool!  Me too. no , i’m not much of a dreamer , i just go for what i want and get it if i really want it . no , i’m not here just for laughs , this group does things for me that you’ll never know . Cool.  Good.  Honestly, thank you.  It’s good to know a bit about the person there.  Someone once asked me if I’d ever tried to engage you in conversation, and I hadn’t but now I have.  I feel better now. Again, thanks, %.  I won’t bug you anymore. double cool , we’re not so different then .

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ok , i will help you .

:) yes , i’ve been taking meds for depression since the age of 4 . i have anxiety attacks that would kill a normal human . also the inner voices we all know and love are forever present .

<nod nod the age thing we’ll just leave alone .

fair enough i’m an addiction counselor with an adult psychologhy diploma . i work in a non medical detox doing case management mostly . but i’m currently on leave do to illness .

K. i like anything i can do outside .

Me too. i dislike murder in any form , to the point where walking on grass bothers

me . Me too, but not to that extent. i’m not married anymore , tried it once , i didn’t even like the cake .

LOL yes , i have two children .

Cool!  Me too. no , i’m not much of a dreamer , i just go for what i want and get it if i really want it . no , i’m not here just for laughs , this group does things for me that you’ll never know .

Cool.  Good.  Honestly, thank you.  It’s good to know a bit about the person there.  Someone once asked me if I’d ever tried to engage you in conversation, and I hadn’t but now I have.  I feel better now. Again, thanks, %.  I won’t bug you anymore.

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" THINGIE’S " got twins .

Oh God, now there’s three of them??? *faints* Aware1 — Toto… I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore.

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Okay…  I’m curious. Honestly, now.  Tell us about yourself?  Do you suffer from depression?  How old are you?  What do you do?  What do you like?  What do you dislike?  Are you married?  Have any kids?  Any dreams?  Ambitions?  Goals? Or are you just here to laugh and wave your… you know… in everybody’s face?

ok , i will help you . yes , i’ve been taking meds for depression since the age of 4 . i have anxiety attacks that would kill a normal human . also the inner voices we all know and love are forever present . the age thing we’ll just leave alone . i’m an addiction counselor with an adult psychologhy diploma . i work in a non medical detox doing case management mostly . but i’m currently on leave do to illness . i like anything i can do outside . i dislike murder in any form , to the point where walking on grass bothers me . i’m not married anymore , tried it once , i didn’t even like the cake . yes , i have two children . no , i’m not much of a dreamer , i just go for what i want and get it if i really want it . no , i’m not here just for laughs , this group does things for me that you’ll never know . and i only wave my , " you know " , in the faces of those who ask nicely .    http://www.newsfeeds.com       The Largest Usenet Servers in the World!

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wow.  thank you. really…thanks – i’m glad to have a chance to see behind the % take care, rune —

diet cure by julia ross?

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I haven’t heard of this book but I take amino acid supplements to smooth out my mood and relieve carbohydrate cravings.  For me, there is definitely something to this theory.  I tried the supplements because my sister is the same way and they worked for her. Sue 198/193/190 for now

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For those who are interested: Ross is a addiction counselor who found that her clients could kick their habits temporarily, but then would return to their old addictive behavior. With the aid of a nutritionist, Ross found that by providing the clients with the right supplements, they could kick the habit permanently. Ross’ theory is that people who overeat do so because of an imbalance in their brain chemistry, so someone who snacks on a lot of carbs is really trying to get more serotonin, etc., to their brains. Once you get your brain chemistry back in order w/ amino acid supplements, you can concentrate on eating a balanced diet, which means you won’t need the supplements anymore. In some ways, this sounds a bit like fen/phen in that you’re trying to satisfy your brain’s chemical needs.

Another good read on this subject is a book called "Potatoes, Not Prozac" (I’m not kidding here), written by Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D, Addictive Nutrition.  the book deals mostly with sugar sensitive folks, but expands into a great discussion on brain chemistry.    Please leave off the potatoes to e-mail

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Hi there, I just started reading the Diet Cure by Julia Ross, and was wondering if anyone here has any opinions on it. I’m new to this group, and haven’t seen this mentioned recently or in dejanews. For those who are interested: Ross is a addiction counselor who found that her clients could kick their habits temporarily, but then would return to their old addictive behavior. With the aid of a nutritionist, Ross found that by providing the clients with the right supplements, they could kick the habit permanently. Ross’ theory is that people who overeat do so because of an imbalance in their brain chemistry, so someone who snacks on a lot of carbs is really trying to get more serotonin, etc., to their brains. Once you get your brain chemistry back in order w/ amino acid supplements, you can concentrate on eating a balanced diet, which means you won’t need the supplements anymore. In some ways, this sounds a bit like fen/phen in that you’re trying to satisfy your brain’s chemical needs, so I’m wondering if anyone thinks there are particular benefits or dangers to this approach? Thanks, Maria

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Doctors!

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Dynamite comes in small packages huh Amy? :) Karen

Absolutely.  When I get in a mood, run for cover. :)

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Amy, have you ever thought of writing horror movies for Hollywood?  You just might have a second career opportunity here that has been so far left untapped! Charity

Excellent idea Charity!  Although, it won’t be as much fun fantasizing about grusome special effects as it will be fantasizing about incompetant, cruel doctors and their oh, so graphic demise.  I’ll give it a shot and send you the first copy of the screenplay. :) In seriousness, though, Jeri, maybe you should take up Mary’s idea and start writing letters.  If nothing else, it might make you feel better and less helpless.  If not, LET ME AT HER. Be Well, -Amy

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I don’t have as much a problem with Dr.s seeing me as a druggie, as I do with Dr.s seeing me as a neurotic little female.  Now THAT makes me mad.  I am sorry, Jerri, you had to endure this.  By sharing your story we can all identify a little.  On the lighter side – I just have to ask if you are ever teased with those first two names?    YVONNE I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I vote that we sick Amy on her [vbg].  It just might be good for the both of them…  I Thanks for the confidence Charity.  Just rile me up and let me at her. Hmmmm….lets see….I’ll have to come up with a fabulous torture involving stretching veins and blood vessels until they rip apart, leaving her screaming at the sight of her own blood spurting around the room until she’s nothing but a pile of lifeless flesh.  Oops, there I go letting my vindictive side show again.  Sorry. I hope all are well, -Amy

Dynamite comes in small packages huh Amy? :) Karen

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OK, now I’m mad as hell!  Jeri, you did nothing wrong!  Your body has this disorder, not you.  Whenever I’m disrespected and dismissed like you were, it helps me to write as many letters as possible.  Fighting back can help you maintain your self-respect and dignity, which can be extremely hard to hold on to in the HA doctor battle. There "are" good doctors out there who would be willing to help, listen and show you some much, needed kindness.  I am so sorry for the treatment you had to experience!  It breaks my heart to hear these stories.  Good luck! Mary – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

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I vote that we sick Amy on her [vbg].  It just might be good for the both of them…  I

Thanks for the confidence Charity.  Just rile me up and let me at her. Hmmmm….lets see….I’ll have to come up with a fabulous torture involving stretching veins and blood vessels until they rip apart, leaving her screaming at the sight of her own blood spurting around the room until she’s nothing but a pile of lifeless flesh.  Oops, there I go letting my vindictive side show again.  Sorry. I hope all are well, -Amy

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I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

You didn’t say what kind of a setting this doctor was in, ie private practice, clinic, HMO, but if it one of the latter where she has a superior to answer to, I would encourage you to write a letter of complaint. Ypu wi;; feel better for having taken some action and there is a possibility that someone might actually give a sh*t. One of the only pluses I see in the current trend in medicine is that where is is seen so often as a *business*, the bean counters get upset at alienating the paying customers. One of the givens in business is that one unhappy customer can do you much more damage than 5 good customers can do you *good*. So write a letter of complaint. Jonathan

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I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

Jeri, I vote that we sick Amy on her [vbg].  It just might be good for the both of them…  I know it is easier said than done, but sometimes doctors need to be talked back to and told in no uncertain terms that you expect them to listen to you and that you are paying them to listen to you, help you out, etc, and NOT for them to act like God or ignore you and your questions.  I have done this to two doctors so far.  You would be amazed at the way it tends to flat out surprise them and make them shut up, listen and try to help.  It is like knocking them off their damn pedistal.  And, you feel good about having done it, too. Charity Email address modified to protect the innocent.  Remove NoJunkMail and replace with slepcevc

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I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

Jeri, Don’t give up.  There ar a lot of uncomapssionate doctors out ther and a lot of them that will act exactly lke the doctor you saw did. Although I can’t imagine her not letting you ask a question, I think I would hae cried too. But please dont’ give up.  There are also good doctors out there.  It takes a while to find them som,etimes but they’re there Good Luck Karen

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I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.  By that time I was in tears and couldn’t talk.  She told me I could make another appointment for 2 weeks.  Needless to say I didn’t even stop to talk to the receptionist.  I was so depressed, I cried all the way home.  It is so hard for me to deal with situations like that.  Thanks for listening guys.  Have a Healthy Day. — Jeri M. Gray

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I just need to vent.  I went to see another doctor today.  To get some meds for my allergies.  Well, after see looked at my list of current meds that I am taking for my HAs.  She looked at me like I was nuts and decided that I was just in there for drugs, then she got really rude.  When I said there was one additional thing I would like to ask.  She told me I had already taken up way over my 15 minutes.   — Jeri M. Gray

Does this doctor have a superior you can write a letter of complaint to?  Did an insurance company cover the visit?  If so, write to the insurance company and complain about the care you received from her (esp. the "15 minutes" comment, since that’s an objective complaint).  Insurance companies do sometimes listen when their clients complain about inadequate medical care.   Maybe you can keep the doctor from doing this to someone else. And hang in there.  Doctor roulette is a game everyone with a chronic condition/illness has to play.  There are good doctors out there, it just takes time to find them.  Good luck! Shirley

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This week my primary started refusing scripting me 4-6 occasional Fioricet and my neuro cut me back to 10 fioricet with codeine per month (I have to wait until next week to fill it), I have had two ulcers and I am not supposed to take ANY anti-inflammatory at all. Even the once in a blue moon dose can cause stomach upset. Thursday I will call my gastroenterologist to see if he’d be willing to oversee my pain medication because my primary and neuro don’t take me seriously when it comes to anti-inflamitories leading to more stomach damage. I’m on several headache  preventatives and they do reduce the severity but far from eliminate my problem. If this situation wasn’t bad enough, having a stressful day can bring on or make my gut problems worse. Keep your fingers, toes, etc crossed so I get some help with pain control. ~~~If all else fails, screw the &*%^ instructions~~~ http://community.webtv.net/changeagent/RaysPlace

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Well, last week my pc practically yelling at me told me to go to an addiction counselor!! I am a bit insulted for I take my meds as prescribed….sometimes less (pain meds). So in a way I cannot wait to prove her wrong!! I have almost 9 years and am active member of A.A. so am well aware of the dangers but cannotlive like this and shouldn’t have to! A.A. tells us to take medication if we need it, to be careful when using pain meds, etc..BUT…we are not doctors. I see my neuro next week, then the addiction guy. Can’t wait, either, to see what the neuro does about presribing me percocet and / or fiorinal. I take it more often than you do (have over a level 5 ha every day) but I am very cautious with the percocet. You know, those don’t even work sometimes!!! I told both docs numerous times that I want something to take at home instead of having to go to the er for a shot. Not listening to me anymore, I’m afraid! I wish you the best. I don’t have the stomach problems, but there has to be something you can take. If these docs could switch heads with us just for one day .. then they would see; know…I am fed up, too.

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I too, would appreciate a look at your list of questions. Why reinvent the wheel when I don’t have to. I’m on four preventatives for migraine and tension headache. They’ve noticeably decreased the frequency and intensity but I still get the bastards.  Unfortunately I still need some pain meds to get me through most days. I am very seriously considering changing my primary doc and my neuro. Having a list of questions to rattle off before they did anything would be a big help and it may help find a doctor who is willing to work with me. ~~~If all else fails, screw the &*%^ instructions~~~ http://community.webtv.net/changeagent/RaysPlace

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Pam, I would love to see your list of questions!  Do you mind sharing some of them here? — Anna in Michigan annap1atlycosmail.com – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I finally made my mind up that my first visit to any doctor would be to interview them to see if they would be working for me, and not  the other way around.  I would go in with a list of "20" questions I would ask before the exam even began.  I walked out on one Dr. and one Neuro before they ever touched me. Happy hunting, Pam

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Dear Raymond W and Fire-in-eyes: I have had a migraine headache every day for over 4 years now.  For the first 2 years I allowed the Drs. and Neuros. to make me feel less than sub-standard for having a  headache I  never requested in the first place. For some reason I can’t explain I felt intimidated by these guys. By the  second year, I finally figured out God had put me on the planet for equally as good a reason as he had put the docs on the planet.  Even though I do not have initials after my last name, the fact that I have a soul and mind gives me the right to be treated with respect, kindness, and as an equal when it comes to my body.  (Why it took me two years to figure this out – I’ll never know…must have been all that pain they said I didn’t have!) I finally made my mind up that my first visit to any doctor would be to interview them to see if they would be working for me, and not  the other way around.  I would go in with a list of "20" questions I would ask before the exam even began.  I walked out on one Dr. and one Neuro before they ever touched me. I am sorry to see y’all going through what I went through my first two years.  I know what it feels like when you feel like your pain care professional seems to be insinuating you must be drug seeking. I know what it feels like to have to go through every category of preventative and abortive (it took me 3 and a half years to get through my list) only to find that nothing works…so the doctor you have now (4 years later) can say, "Oh, I see you have tried everything….you must be really be in pain."  Well, no s***. Hang in there, guys.  Make up a list.  Find a doctor you like…he or she is out there somewhere. Happy hunting, Pam

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